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Meditation · Anxiety

Kind Words to the Body

Priya Raman · 11 min

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What to do, minute by minute

  1. 1. Settle in

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    Sit or lie down somewhere you won't be disturbed. Let your shoulders drop, close your eyes or soften your gaze, and take three slow breaths.

  2. 2. Follow the breath

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    Breathe in for a count of four, out for a count of six. Let the out-breath be longer than the in-breath — that's what calms the nervous system.

  3. 3. Scan and release

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    Move your attention slowly from your jaw to your shoulders, hands, belly and legs. Wherever you find tension, breathe into it and let it go.

  4. 4. Rest in stillness

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    Stop steering. Let thoughts come and go like passing traffic — when you notice you've wandered off, that noticing is the practice. Return to the breath.

  5. 5. Come back gently

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    Deepen your breath, wiggle your fingers and toes, and open your eyes slowly. Carry a little of this quiet into whatever comes next.

Offering the body a few sentences it rarely hears.

Say quietly: thank you for the breathing you did today. Thank you for the walking, the carrying, the healing you did without being asked. Notice any resistance to saying it, and say it anyway. Kindness works even when it is awkward.